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Name: Heather
Country: usa
I had an abortion 3 days ago on Feb 26,2008. My son is 4 months old after giving birth to my son i recieved one period and got pregnant. I couldn't believe my eyes when I seen the postive on the pregnancy test, at first my boyfriend and I said we wil keep it but as time went on I seen how hard it was going to be. We didn't have a lot of money and im going back to college and I don't know what i would do with two children 10 months apart so i made an appt. the chicago abortion fund helped me out a lot. The first appt. I left i had my ultrasound done and i need a glance of it which made me depressed the nurse called my name i went into the room and told her i couldnt do it, i needed more time. One week later i go back, this time when the nurse was going through my file there it was again the ultrasound picture i seen it clearly this time i will never forget it i went into the operation room had iv and 100 mg of anesthesia and said i cant do this okay so then i was told this was the last time. So when i left i flipped out and realized i really wanted the abortion because i couldnt raised another baby right now so they were kindly to let me back and the next week 3 tuesday in a row i went through with it i dont regret it but i feel very bad about it i was stupid not to take my birth control. I've never would of thought i would have an abortion my first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage. Time will heel
Posted: 1st March 2008 01:38:53 pm

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Name: Joselyn
Country: usa
It was November 1988, my daughter was 10 months old. I told my husband I was pregnant,first thing out of his mouth was "What will my family think". He never demanded me to get the abortion nor did he tell me not do. I remember going to the doctors office no counselling nothing they called my name I went in a cold room a few minutes later I was throwing up. I walked out we left we have never spoken to each other about those events ever. I had another child in April 1991, and divorced in 1993, I have so many what ifs?? I just wish we could of griefed with each other or talked about it. As a new Christian I no God has frogiven me and I am slowly learning that it is ok to forgive myself. My kids know about the abortion. 21 years later I still think about it,,,,
Posted: 16th April 2008 06:32:21 am

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Name: michelle
Country: australia
my husband of 18 years died in an accident a couple of years ago. I thought that my life was over, I have 2 children from this marriage. I met my new partner a bit over a year ago. He is younger than i am and does not have any children of his own. He told me that it was important to him to have a child of his own and so needed to know if this was something i would be open to. I said that i would consider it in time and so a couple of months ago we decided to try for a baby. I am 7 weeks pregnant and a couple of days ago he decided that he was not ready for a baby and thinks that we have done the wrong thing and should of waited a bit longer. I am sick to my stomach.

I did struggle early in our relationship thinking about wether i wanted another child or not, but he seemed so caring and reliable and had been so supportive after my husbands death, he was also great with my 2 kids. So i started to get my head around being a mum to a young baby again.

we started trying a couple of months ago and everything seemed great. when I did the test and it was positive he was so excited. I dont understand what went wrong. Even though I really love my new partner i still feel the loss of my husband every day, it is an unexplainable pain that just wears me down and I have to keep telling my self that it will not help to dwell and bring myself down so I have been trying to keep positive and look to the future, A positive future with someone new that I know loves me.

I never thought I would be in this sort of position. I dont know how I will cope with having an abortion but dont want to bring a baby that is unwanted by its father into this world. I already struggle with grief. I really dont think that I am strong enough to bring a baby into this world without the support of a partner. If I do have an abortion, I dont think I could ever lay beside him and feel the same again. I dont know what to do
Posted: 23rd April 2008 03:13:37 pm

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Name: Sally
Country: australia
I would just like to say- i feel sadder reading all the judgements made on here. it is absolutley an individual decision and no matter who of us have had to make that decision- it was not an easy one. Noone knows anyones circumstances fully and i too was totally against abortion until a horrible rape. i never ever thought o would have done this and i know now the regrets i have, however at the time you feel dead and think the fix is abortion. not till its happened and you actually start to deal with it do you realise what you have done. i still believe that no one should be judging anyone - that is for God to do and we have our own journey to make with God and it is not for anyone to judge us because we are human after all and i do believe God still love me. love always to my sweet one Jade

[Hi Sally, my name is Judy and I began this ministry over 20 years ago. Like you, I was raped too, when I was 16. I didn't have an abortion because of the rape, though, as my mum never knew about it, but she organized it. You would think then that it would not have affected me like it did: a pregnancy the result of rape, an abortion organized by a mother back in the days of the stigma of unmarried pregnancy. I blocked both of those events out of my mind for years,and in the meantime abused and neglected children I had later. Thank God He intervened and forgave and healed me! Over 20 or so years of speaking with post-abortive women, Sally, there have been maybe 30 or so who were made pregnant by rape and I have been struck that even though this was the case, they were contacting us,sometimes a long time after, to say they had forgiven the rapist but not themselves for their abortions. I guess that is because often it is easier to forgive others than it is ourselves. So Sally, I pray you will be okay, but if sometime in the future you need help dealling with the loss of your baby, please contact us.
with love, Judy]
Posted: 4th May 2008 12:58:24 am

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Name: Robyn
Country: Australia
Dear Sisters,
If you are considering an abortion hear my counsel DO NOT ABORT YOUR BABY.The bible says all sin leads to death.Abortion is murder.God's Word says you shalt not kill.
When my 3rd child was 2years,I became pregnant,my husband and I wanted to have 4 children.We were struggling financially,my husband pressured me into aborting this baby,convincing me,it was not the right time and we would have a 4th child when we were financially stronger.
I went against my instincts,but,felt I had no choice as my husband forced it upon me,at the time I was not a Christian.This 1st abortion lead to 4 more.

Abortion is not just a medical procedure.It is an act which has far reaching consequences to your relationship with the father of the unborn child,your self image,identity and value as a woman,emotional wounds that do not heal easily or quickly,the grief and loss NEVER leaves your soul,it has serious spiritual ramifications which open doors to satan having a strong foothold in your life,it is a serious sin which also becomes a curse of iniquity on other children you have.

Now I am a Christian and God has done an amazing healing in my heart,He has forgiven me.I have prayed and asked God to dissolve all iniquitious fruit off my children from my sin.Evenso,the Lord has healed me,some things are permanent in their consequences.My beautiful children are dead.

Abortion is actually a killing sacrifice to satan.You may not be a Christian, as I wasn't at the time,but,just because you can not "see" the law of gravity does not mean, it doesn't exist or affect you.

God has created us and all things.He also created laws.We are subject to His laws.If we break His law there are serious consequences.Satan uses our foolishness of breaking God's laws,as an entry into our soul and life.

The medical profession are not equipped to counsel you effectively about the consequences emotionally,phsycologically,spiritually,relationally.

The 1st abortion I had opened me, my husband and my other children up, spiritually to demonic attack from demons of death.

My husband each time forced me into having an abortion.Our marriage was severely damaged.On the surface we just pretended all was well.

January 2001 my husband hung himself.I know that a spirit of death entered into our lives from the 1st abortion,which lead to more abortions and the suicidal death of my husband.

A few years later I had a relationship with another man.The 5th abortion was from this relationship.This man abandoned me pregnant,I felt helpless as I was raising 3 other children after the loss of my husband,pregnant,abandoned and a single mum I was totally overwhelmed.

That was about 5 years ago.Last year that man and I reconciled and than broke up again.I discovered recently that he has another illigitimate child approximately the same age my child would now be.

This raised my pain again,also my shame of not being strong enough to overcome the "concerns" of the situation,which lead to my decision.

The details of all I've experienced through abortion are somewhat brief in this short story.However,I would like to encourage you to have your baby.Your choice to have a baby in challenging circumstances wil affect your life,but, to abort your baby is dangerous beyond what you understand.

God will provide a way for you to care for your child.

Also if your pregnancy is the result of fornication or adultery you need to repent.Sex outside marriage is sin.All sin leads to death.
Most women faced with the decision of abortion have become pregnant from fornicating.The men abandon very quickly,because there is no depth to an uncommitted relationship.Sex is not love.Love is laying down your life for another.

So dear sisters,walk in God's way.Do not kill and do not fornicate.

Love God and yourself and your unborn child.

If the man pressures you or walks because you are pregnant,stand tall,trust in the Lord and He will make your path straight.

Posted: 15th May 2008 01:38:59 am

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