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Name: Jade
Country: Australia
In my eyes it was a mistake but in everyone else’s it was the right choice. It’s a memory that will last forever and be remembered every single day. It hurts when I think about what happened but you just think it’s a joke. I regret doing the right thing but i know I wouldn’t of survived if I chose the wrong thing. I want to forget it ever happened but I know I can’t do that. Life has changed since that day and now it will never be back how it was.
Posted: 2nd May 2010 08:28:36 pm

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Name: Madeleine
Country: Australia
i was 16 when i found out, with a guy i had been with for 2 years. i was still too young to know what to do. he told me i was to have an abortion or he would leave me and tell everyone i cheated on him. i rang and made the appointment the day after i found out. a week later i was in a clinic having an ultrasound. i was 6 and a half weeks pregnant. i had to put on a gown, then go and sit on a chair that looked like a dentists chair. they put me under anesthetic and i fell asleep almost instantly. i woke up crying realizing the mistake i had just made. my boyfriend at the time just told me to shut up. i couldn't tell anyone.
since then i have broken up with him, lost all my friends and had major problems with my family.
I'm now 18 and doing my HSC but am still tormented everyday by what i did to my helpless child
Posted: 8th May 2010 01:41:31 pm

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Name: Mona
Country: Australia
I decided to have an abortion Jan 2010. I was 8 weeks. It was a stupid & unnecessary decision. The timing was perfect but I was unsure weather I could handle another child as I had two very troublesome toddlers. It has now been 5 months & still everyday I suffer from grief, loneliness, anger & resentment - I am a total wreak - I cry about the loss of a new journey every day. I don't sleep well & at times it has been hard to connect with my supportive husband & children. I was not ready to decide but my body was changing so rapidly. My babies are 7 & 5 they came with my husband & I on the day, he took them shopping for new things while I went to the clinic on my own, I so wish I had changed my mind & I know now you can not turn back time. I was looking for something to give me a sign, something to help me make up my mind - I wish I had found this website in the days before it would have helped me understand the after-effects of an abortion.
Thank you for the chance to tell my story - please be sure in your heart & mind BEFORE you ring the clinic & really consider if you can handle the after-effects. They are very strong both physically & mentally much stronger to handle than a child.
Go forth & be joyous
Simone
Posted: 11th May 2010 12:35:39 pm

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Name: Heena
Country: India
I am 20yrs, recently got pregnent .I realised it once i missed my periods in May 2010.i was 4 weeks pregnent. I love my boyfriend but he never really have any plans to stay with me forever.Maybe i was only a timepass for him,a thing of entertainment.so i had no other option but to go for an abortion, i took pills and killed my child.Now every day starts with a grief of killing my own child. My boyfriend found a new gal and thinks of me only for sex. so i broke up with him,though its hard to loose the person i loved the most and my baby at a same time.Nothing makes me happy the way i used to be,everyday is the same crying .
So i jus happnd to see this and wanted to share my feelings.
I am devasted, dont know wat to do. I want to jus go away somewhere alone but i cant leave my widow mum to suffer alone.

Posted: 6th June 2010 05:01:25 pm

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